The newsletter is not due out for another week, but my article is finished for it and I thought I would go ahead and publish it here. Hope you don’t mind!
“Our firm decision is to work from this focused center: One man died for everyone. That puts everyone in the same boat…Because of this decision we don’t evaluate people by what they have or how they look. We looked at the Messiah that way once and got it all wrong, as you know…Now we look inside, and what we see is that anyone united with the Messiah gets a fresh start, is created new. The old life is gone; a new life burgeons! Look at it!!” (1 Corinthians 5:16ff, The Message)
On some deep level, I really like the summer season when I do not have to wear the robe that immediately identifies me as “the preacher.” I seem to be much more comfortable talking to everyone and I am especially more comfortable talking to those who may be guests in worship. I can connect with them as a person first and a preacher second. I think I also like this because it helps me cover up a fault that I have.
You see, I have to make a very sad and somewhat desperate confession to you. Some Sunday mornings, I walk into the sanctuary and look around at the people who are gathered to worship and then look directly at one particular person and say to myself, “Who is that person?” My heart is racing, my brain is on overdrive, I am searching for both a name and the information about whether or not they have been here a long time, short time or somewhere in between. Then I even begin to wonder at times whether they are first time guests or guests that I met the previous week. Sometimes, I come up with the answers and sometimes I don’t. To me, that is both a little sad and desperate.
However, I also know that I am not alone. I have had more than one member of our congregation tell me over the past few months that there are so many people that they just don’t know in the congregation. They have said one of two things: Either that they know we have received a lot of new members from another congregation and they don’t want to embarrass that person or themselves by introducing themselves when they may have already done so; or they say that being fairly new to the congregation they are afraid they are going to offend a long term member by introducing themselves.
Folks, first and foremost we need to praise God that we are all having these kinds of problems! It is a wonderful problem for us to be having here at Stout Memorial. Over the last year, we have received several members from other congregations as well as many persons by profession of faith. We have over 500 people active in our congregation and well over half of them are present on any given Sunday. For any one of us (including the pastoral staff) to know each and every person each and every week is next to impossible.
The Scripture passage above may help us all in dealing with the problems we may have on a Sunday morning when we are trying to determine how “familiar” to be with the people around us. This passage reminds us that there is only one identity that really matters when we get together and that is the identity that Christ gives us.
We do not come to worship on Sunday in order to be recognized by the people around us or to be singled out by the preacher. And we don’t evaluate people on how well they know us or how well they seem to fit in. What we need to be doing, Paul reminds us in Corinthians, is to be looking towards the inside and that way we can treat every single person who is around us as a Child of God.
God is sending us new guests in worship each and every week. Some of them come back and some of them do not. One of the main reasons people return to any worship service has to do with how many people speak to them during the first ten minutes of their arrival. Usually by the end of that ten minutes, they have decided whether to come back or not based on how much people are paying attention to the “inside” rather than the appearance.
I want to challenge us all over the coming months to really be intentional about greeting each and every person we see on Sunday. Yes, we may have to get up and move around a little before worship begins and yes, we may make some mistakes about people’s identity. But perhaps we can all focus on the identity Christ gave them and us, smile and say it is a good thing that God loves us all.
Peace
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